Frequently asked questions

Can I come alone?
Yes. This space is created with solo guests in mind. Many people arrive on their own, and the event is designed to make it easy to connect, meet others, or simply move at your own pace.

Do I have to engage in anything sexual?
No. Nothing is required. This is a sex-positive space, which means openness around expression and connection, with consent as a core principle. There is no expectation to participate in anything sexual, and sex is always optional and never assumed. You are invited to engage only in ways that feel right for you. Most people come for the lively, free energy of the event and to meet open-minded people in an environment that feels relaxed, curious, inclusive, and free of judgment.

Can I come with a partner?
Yes. You are welcome to attend together and only play with each other. How you choose to relate with each other and others is completely up to you. We higly encourge communicating and negotiate before hand.
 

Is there space to rest or take a break?
Yes.There is a dedicated quiet SAFE SPACE for anyone who needs to step away, regulate, or take a pause. This space is especially supportive for people who may feel overstimulated or overwhelmed, which can happen in a exciting night like this.

What are Carebears?
Carebears are present to support you emotionally during the event. They are here if you feel overwhelmed, need someone to talk to, or want support navigating a situation.If a boundary is crossed, or if you experience anything that doesn’t align with our community guidelines, Carebears are your point of contact. They are there to listen, support, and help take appropriate action if needed.
 

What event do you recommend if I'm new?

If you're new, we usually recommend starting with a Mingle or Hangout event. It's a great way to dip your toes in, meet some humans, and see if digg our vibe. That said, it really depends on you. Some people actually feel safer at our bigger parties with 80+ people. More people means more places to hide, float around, and stumble into connection when you're ready. Others prefer our smaller events with around 30 people because the energy is softer, less overwhelming, and a little easier on the nervous system.

There is no right way to start. Pick the event that works with you busy schedule, and see how it flows from there. 

 

What is the dress code?

You always choose what feels comfortable for your body. There is no pressure here to show anything you do not want to show. At the same time, this is a space where we actively explore freedom from shame and stigma. We welcome all bodies, all sizes, all colors, cellulite and scars. Perfection is not the goal. Authenticity is.
 

You are invited to dress up, dress down, explore an alter ego, or show up in a more subtle expression. Play with it, if you want to. What we do not allow is everyday street clothing like jeans and a shirt. This is because it creates a social disconnect that makes it harder to feel safe, open, and in the same shared atmosphere of expression.

If you’re unsure what to wear, a kimono always works. You can find them at places like H&M, Rituals, Fru Lyng, Kid and many more stores have them.